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December 19, 2012

One of the best parts of growing up is taking the traditions you had when you were a kid and adapting them to your new grown up life. John and I have a couple of our own traditions that we started a few years back when we started living together (like gifts to each other from the cat, and Christmas dinner at our favorite Chinese place) and my family had a lot of awesome traditions when I was a kid that I love that John is now included in. My favorite tradition was the Elves. No, not an elf on the shelf…Elves.

Our parents started this tradition when my sister and I were little. I don’t even remember the first year it started, so it had to be when we were really young. Christmas eve night we’d say good night and be preparing for bed. We would be in the middle of brushing our teeth or bickering about what to watch on TV before it was time to go to sleep when the doorbell would ring and the dog would start howling (she hates the doorbell).

“WHO’S THAT AT THE DOOR??” Mom would call up the stairs to us (our dad was always suspiciously missing around this time…). Kacie and I would stop bickering and immediately try to beat the other person down the stairs. One of us would open the door, cold air would come rushing in, and we’d each find an early Christmas gift Santa’s “elves” had dropped off on our doorstep for us to open early.

When the elves first started visiting our house they’d leave us things like Christmas pajamas and sometimes socks or slippers too. One exception was a Christmas I will always remember…the year of the big ice storm. Power was out everywhere. It didn’t come back on for days and days. It was so cold inside of our normally toasty house that I wore a coat to bed and still shivered as I fell asleep. That year the elves left us both a Campbell’s soup gift set with a funny ceramic soup mug with the little Campbell’s soup girl on the front. Β Soup was such a welcome sight after such a cold few days!

In 2007 I moved out into my own bachelorette pad after starting my first “REAL” job and I worried that the elf gifts would stop. I know it’s silly and a grown person who lives on her own shouldn’t be sad about things like this, but I’m a very sentimental person and it doesn’t really take much to make me cry (just ask John haha). I don’t remember what the elves brought us that year (at some point they started bringing Ulta gift cards…HOLLA), but I do remember how it felt to get that gift and know that even though life could sometimes be rough, I was still my parents’ little girl and nothing would change that.

The past few years the elves have continued to visit us on Christmas eve. These days they aren’t waiting until we’re headed to bed, which I’m assuming is because we keep much later bedtimes now that we are adults and can stay up as long as we want. The elves don’t have all night to sit around waiting for us to go to bed…they have toys to finish for crying out loud! We also don’t live at home anymore, so they probably don’t know where we live. Instead they visit us while we’re all at my mom’s house eating dinner on Christmas eve. The best part of this is that they now bring John gifts on Christmas eve too! No, not an Ulta gift card (though I could definitely take that off of his hands if the elves accidentally gave him one of those too…). It means a lot to me that my parentsΒ the elves have welcomed John into our family as not just my husband, but as a son too.

This tradition means so much more to me than my parents could know. Now that I’m an adult I know that it’s more than just a gift on Christmas eve…it’s how much my parents love us and the silly things they do (and have done) to make us smile and let us know that they care:)

So, because I can’t give all of you an elf gift, instead I’m sharing with you my Spotify Christmas playlist! I LOVE music, especially a lot of alternative/indie stuff, so my Christmas playlist definitely has some out of the ordinary tracks! You can find it by clicking this linkπŸ™‚ AND you need something good to drink while you’re listening to the playlist, so I’m also going to give a 10$ Starbucks card to one lucky commenter! Just comment with your favorite Christmas tradition! Check back on Friday for the winner!

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  1. Dani says:

    Elves sounds like so much fun!! I agree that I have loved growing up and adapting my family’s and my husband’s fams traditions to suit us. And his family makes me feel so included, I adore it! Means so much to me. My favorite Christmas tradition (since only 2005) is on Christmas eve, Frank and I actually watch the video of when he proposed to me on Christmas 2004. His mom used to always video the kids opening the stockings and much to my surprise at the bottom of my stocking that year was an engagement ring so everything was taped!

  2. Dani says:

    AND PS – can’t wait to listen to your playlist!!

  3. Emily says:

    Love this story! Your telling of it makes it even more beautiful.

  4. Emilia Jane says:

    What a fun tradition! I love it πŸ™‚

  5. Anna K. says:

    Katie I love this! Sweet family traditions are what make the holidays so special. Every year when I was a kid my mom would host a little ginger bread house competition. All of our friends would get together and we would spend the ENTIRE day building these intricate creations. As we got older they moved from tiny houses to large churches, the Pyramids, the Roman Colosseum and someone even went so far as to construct an Eiffel Tower. It was so much fun and it is one of the things that I miss the most around the holidays.

  6. mjb says:

    My parents had a lot of fun traditions, but I’m excited for when my own kids remember Christmas from year to year and we can start creating our own family traditions, too.

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  8. that elves story just brought tears to my eyes, bc I love the magic of Christmas!
    Our traditions aren’t huge, but every year, on Christmas Eve, me & my sister (and my brother if he is lucky enough to have leave from the Air Force) reads “Twas the Night Before Christmas” out loud – passing the giant (3’x4′) book around taking turns saying our parts. My bro is stationed in Germany this year & can’t make it home, but I’m looking forward to next year (hopefully!) and including his new step-son in our tradition!

  9. Sarah Der! says:

    Ohhhhh!!! Well my favorite Christmas tradition I only get to partake in 50% of the time (when we’re with MY fam instead of the husband’s) but I really love spending Christmas eating a bunch of my mom’s homemade chocolates (chocolate covered cashews/pretzels/cherries/coconut) SO GOOD and so indulgent and so yummy. Also, in Ohio, it’s pretty much ALWAYS super cold and snowy, so cha-ching! We can add snuggling with a nephew/dog/cat whilst eating chocolates to my delightful holiday tradition. πŸ™‚

  10. ashley link says:

    this is so sweet! i must admit i got a little sentimental reading this post haha. i love traditions! my family’s tradition is to go see it’s a wonderful life at the byrd theater in richmond on Christmas night. there’s also an organ player who comes out and plays Christmas carols. i can’t wait for this year! haha. thanks for sharing a glimpse into your Christmas. πŸ™‚

  11. I LOVE this post, Katie. The elves are so cool πŸ™‚ both to have kept doing this for such a long time, but now also to include John!

  12. Suzanne says:

    That’s so sweet! I love that idea. When my husband and I got together, we incorporated the tradition of Christmas breakfast being cinnamon buns and opening one gift from each other on Christmas Eve. I always pick that one item that I’m so excited to give him that I want to burst! lol. And now that we have kids, they each get to pick a present from under the tree to open. But I love your family’s elves idea and just may have to steal it! Thank you for the inspiration!

  13. Krystal says:

    Katie this is so cute! I love that the elves have now included John. We just might have to do something similar to this!

  14. Holly says:

    It’s simple, but I really just love having all of my family together. There’s a big age gap between me (the youngest) and my oldest sisters, so it can be hard to get us all together. I’ve always loved it when I was younger (and now) just spending time together, decorating the tree and making cookies πŸ™‚

  15. Karen says:

    Aw this is so sweet! We always go to the movies on Christmas night!! This year we are going to see les miz!!! Can’t wait!

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